Do you fight with your body, chase your orgasm, or feel stuck, shut-down or generally insecure in your sex life?
Is the shame and stress in your sex life creating instability in your confidence, your relationships, or your work?
Are you ready to truly trust your body and own your sexual power so you can be a badass in your art, career, or life?
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Maximize Your Pleasure
Come Home to Your Body,
​Free Your Inhibitions, & Own Your Orgasm
without apologizing, minimizing, or masquerading

TBA

This event is for women of any size or age, sexual orientation, or gender history.


Maximize Your Pleasure Live
is right for you if...
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  • ​You hide out, stress out, or feel frustrated when it comes to your body, your sex, and your orgasm.
  • You struggle to get to orgasm. You are faking it, or avoiding sex all together because you don't want to feel frustrated, disappointed or generally shitty.
  • You feel lost in your sexuality, intimate relationship, or life, not sure what path to take to get out of the rut.
  • You wait for your partner to turn you on, minimize your desires, not asking for what you want, and then feel unfulfilled or even used.
  • You feel like a failure when it comes to sex, like you're doing it wrong or missing out.
  • You are uninspired in your life, stuck in blah, and crave a jumpstart to inhabit your genius. 
  • You are ready to take BOLD action to make a BIG difference. 
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If this sounds familiar to you, I get it!  There is a way out.

Owning your sexuality without apologizing, minimizing, or masquerading is a practice.  You just need the right tools.

I know what its like to struggle with my body and my orgasm.  I used to feel ashamed and alienated from my pleasure, struggling to find happiness in my skin. 

I remember a time when I would only have sex with the lights off when I was with someone else.  Masturbating, I would pull the covers all the way up to my chin and squeeze my eyes tight.

I've been in that place where I'm trying so hard to make an orgasm happen, that all I hear is the screaming inside:  "What is wrong with you?!" 

This was not the path to sexual freedom.  This was the path to disconnection, despair, and deep depression. 

When I was in this place -- avoiding sex while being so curious about it, minimizing my own desires and kicking myself for not speaking up, apologizing to my partner for how my body would or would not have an orgasm -- I was lost. 

To fully own my sexuality, I had to put in the time and effort.  I had to do the work of making sense of my body and the inner landscape of my desires, thoughts, and feelings.  I had to give myself experiences that were out of the norm in order to discover who I am and create the badass I want to be.

You can watch me tell a story of my sexual awakening here. 
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Eva Blake
Certified Somatic Sexuality Educator
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Praise for this work:

“I am more confident and listen better now to my body for verification of whether I want to go forward to stay still.  It has improved my interaction and communication with [my partner].  A major win.  This gift you gave me is impacting my whole life. Thank you." 
K.S.


"I am more open to possibilities, to more opportunities, outside my regular world.  I am bold.  Every week there was a clear explanation of what was going to happen.  We were given freedom to participate to our own level of comfort." 
J.


"I've been walking around feeling a little bigger and a little more solid since the [course]. More present, more at home in myself, and have clearer energetic boundaries. Have had some interesting new intense orgasms too. Empowering!" 
D.

With MAXIMIZE YOUR PLEASURE, you will...
  • Know & trust your body so you can turn yourself on and feel free in your own skin.
  • Say "Yes!" to your sexual curiosity without waiting for someone else to touch you in just the right spot or get you off.
  • Create fun and empowered experiences for yourself with confidence and ease.
  • Freely communicate your sexual desires without apologizing, postponing, or judging your pleasure.
  • Celebrate your beautiful, powerful, sexy self without comparing yourself to others.​
  • Let people see your confidence and radiance.

​S. L. says:
[This class] made me feel more grounded and therefore more able to say to my partner what works for me and what doesn't without fear of being shamed or rejected.  I am super grateful, Eva, for this work you do and how you bring such a heart and openness and presence and love to your process. Thank you.

​J.J. wrote:
This was a very valuable experience for me.  I felt like I was able to free some of my fears around sex and intimacy and have more comfort with my own body.  I experienced a deep level of healing.


​MAXIMIZE YOUR PLEASURE

Talking about sexuality only goes so far, and we can't talk about women's sexuality without talking about the shame and trauma of sexual violence.  

The Liberating Desire Formula is an integrated approach to understanding, shaping, and healing our sexuality.  We will engage the mind, heart, sex, and spirit in this intensive training.  

In this training, I’m going to teach you, step by step, the best strategies, processes, and practices for unwinding the long-held tensions of shame and trauma in the body so you can grow your resilience, your pleasure, and your confidence. 
DAY 1:  COME HOME TO YOUR BODY
Creating Our Circle
  • Be the architect. Create a culture of curiosity, creativity, and connection in your body, sexuality, and intimate connections​
  • Create Ritual and Set Intention for your best self and the sexual life you desire
  • Learn the Fundamentals of Transformation to support you in your moments of curiosity and courage.
  • Claim your fundamental, non-negotiable needs as assets to fulfill your ultimate well-being and heart's desires

Breath and Presence
  • Expand your capacity to stay connected to your body and others in the midst of uncertainty and mystery
  • Raise energy to reach and sustain ecstatic states using your breath as the primary driver of your state of being

Live Sexological Bodywork Demonstration 
  • Map the anatomy and physiology of the genitals as it engorges in arousal
  • Witness in real-time the arc of stillness, excitation, climax, and reveling​
  • G-Spots, Squirting Orgasms & more
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now, practicing breath patterns to raise energy and arousal.
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2 representations of the internal structure of the clitoris legs and vestibular bulbs under the outer lips
DAY 2:  RECLAIM YOUR WHOLE SELF
​Claim Your Space
  • Practice simple body-based techniques to boost your boundary-setting skills while staying connected to your heart's desires

Claim Your Voice
  • Use sound, words, song, and vocalizations to move energy, expand your personal power, and direct healing, and increase pleasure

​Claim Your Ideal Relationship​
  • Design and actualize your honor and love for the flesh of your sexual body

Claim Your Desire 
  • Learn how you can eliminate the limitations holding you back so you can finally feel free to fully express yourself 

​Claim Your Vision. Embody Your Magic.
  • Put the pieces together​ in a solo sensual ritual 
    facilitated by Eva.

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​DAY 3:  WRITE A NEW STORY
Write a New Story​
  • Upgrade the meanings you’ve been making about yourself to live in an empowered position for your own pleasure, sexuality, and ultimate prosperity​

​Negotiate Your Desires for Sexual Success 
  • Learn 5 simple steps for honest, authentic conversations and negotiations in sex, love, and life.
  • Celebrate your healing and resilience and keep taking inspired action in the direction of your desires.
MAXIMIZE YOUR PLEASURE LIVE BOOTCAMP IS A PARTICIPATORY EVENT!
We will use all our senses and faculties -- our minds, hearts, and bodies -- in the pursuit of accessing and achieving sexual satisfaction! 
The material is sexually explicit, body-positive, and evocative. 
​The practices at this live event are clothing-off, sexually explicit solo exercises, designed to accelerate your mastery of your sexual power and desire. 
I almost didn't take the class because, and this will sound funny, but because your marketing materials seemed too "slick". It made me question the depth of the content. I decided to take a chance and invest the money anyway because I couldn't find anything else that was close to what you were offering. Luckily the experience exceeded my hopes for the class and I am thankful I did take the risk.
- N. M.
Plus, you get these Awesome BONUSES!

​#1:  Catered Lunches 
Delicious, healthy lunches and snacks delivered to Desire Studio each day, so you don't have to fuss with traffic and lines or worry about the time.  A variety of options will be available for your nutrition needs.   (Value: $100)
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#2:  Sensational Solo Sex ToolKit   (Value: $350)
The ToolKit is a series of simple templates and practices for you to discover, create, and then articulate who you are and what you want.  ​
  • Track your awareness, sensation, and pleasure so you can shape the sexual experiences you want.
  • Expand your definition of pleasure, play, and solo sex.
  • Learn to listen to how your body wants to move, respond, and enjoy pleasure so you can end performance and find your unique flow​ 
  • Integrate heart and spirit into your solo-sex for self-loving that feeds and sustains you
  • Truly know yourself as a powerful sexual creature. 
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#3:  Come Home to Your Body Audio Lessons   (Value: $197)
What happens after you leave an intensive weekend retreat?  Most of us feel high, inspired, and transformed, but for many people, we can lose momentum, forget the lessons we learned, and wish we had something to keep us on track moving forward.  I know this is true for me. 

​So, I created a series of Embodiment Practice Audio Lessons designed to help you get acquainted and grounded in your body at any time during your day.  Like anything, practicing these mindfulness exercises will help you go from anxious or distracted to present and confident in all your moments -- from the mundane to the ecstatic.  
"People say 'you gotta love yourself,' but they don't ever say HOW to do it.  You literally showed me how to love myself in ways I didn't know possible. WOW."   - R.C.
Join MAXIMIZE YOUR PLEASURE LIVE BOOTCAMP

Pay in Full: $397
or 2 payments of $220
Consider this an investment; it is.  Maximize Your Pleasure is an investment in your future.  No more stressing out and shutting down during arousal and sex.  No more suffering in the moment or hiding out in your life.  This program gives you the tools you need to feel confident and free in your body so you can speak the truth of your desire and claim what you crave.
Non-refundable deposit of $97 included.  Partial refund will only be issued if cancelled 7 days prior to the start of the course. 
I've been feeling more alive, with more access and connection to fiery life-force energy, also feeling easier in showing up more fully and more powerfully with other people, while staying grounded and centered in myself. I've been moving in this direction for a while now, but it got a super-charge from [this experience]. I am immensely grateful.

DO I HAVE TO GET NAKED? and other FAQs

What happens at the Maximize Your Pleasure Live Boot Camp? Is it sexual?

The Live Bootcamp is designed to engage you in the practical application of movement, interaction, play, and process.

Yes, this material is sexual, so in many ways, the Live Boot Camp will be sexual. Solo Sexual.

This is a hands-on, clothing-off & clothing-optional event where you give yourself the time and space to increase your expertise in mindful erotic embodiment, with an emphasis on your capacity to direct your own sexual healing, curiosity, and ecstasy.
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What does that mean exactly? It means that you will be invited to get naked, stand, play, and dance fully in the amazingness of your own body and skin, and to take responsibility for your turn on and pleasure. It means that you will get clear guidance, exquisite support, and a singular opportunity designed to get you out of stuck and into sexually confident and alive.

​I will teach you the best Sex Body Basics for total sexual satisfaction. I will explain the exercises, provide a demonstration, and then create a facilitated opportunity for you to experiment with the practices.

You will have the space to participate at your level of comfort as you discover and play at the edge of your own erotic possibility.
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beginning with a simple grounding exercise.
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Eva demonstrating breath pattern
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art by IG: @ineslongevial
"Eva, for you to spread love ~ the way you do, is about the most healing practice I've attended (for me personally) in terms of getting in touch with myself, and my partner.   As I reflected on it, you quickly became one of the most admired and important practitioners, I've met, thank you."  - A.M. ​
What if I’m already having good sex?  How will this help me?

If you’re already having good sex now, AWESOME!  I love this!  AND, I want it to continue.  I want you to be able to sustain your good sex, your great communication, and your capacity to evolve and change over time. 

I know what its like to feel deeply connected to myself and then experience shift.  Jobs change, the economy tanks, you get a disease diagnosis, people you love pass away, friends leave, or a tree falls in the forest, and that sends a ripple through your body, heart, mind, and sense of self. 
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What I have found is that consistently great sex this year does not automatically translate to amazing sex and deep, fulfilling connection over the course of a lifetime.  We have to work at it.  We have to put effort into our relationships -- with ourselves and each other. ​

Maximize Your Pleasure Live Bootcamp is designed to enhance what is already working and strengthen your inner resilience for the inevitable curve balls and evolutions of life.
What is the Where and When?

Maximize Your Pleasure will take place in a gorgeous, private space in Houston, Texas where we can learn, laugh, and make the magic that will catapult your sex and desires forward.  The exact location will be sent out after your registration.


Is this event a conference where I can pick and choose which day to attend?
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Maximize Your Pleasure Live Bootcamp is designed for all the material to compliment and build on the previous pieces of teaching and practice.  Your seat at the Bootcamp is for the entire event.  If you miss registration on the first day, you will not be able to attend the other two days. 

I want you to get the most from this experience.  If you pick and choose to attend or skip any parts of this Bootcamp weekend, you risk missing the very thing you need to take your next big leap forward in creating the sexually satisfied life you deserve. ​
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practicing breath inside Desire Studio
My goal here is to share with you the tools and practices I have used and taught for the last 10 years to know, track, and shape your mind, body, and heart in order to create the kinds of positive sexual experiences you want.  I'm not going to tell you what kind of orgasm or sex or relationship is right for you.  I am here to provide a structure to help you develop your own intuition, confidence, and necessary emotional, erotic, and embodiment skills for your success in sexual pleasure.